
I like Young Sheldon, I think it’s important to establish this before we really get going. Mainly because I have a strong suspicion that this post may turn out fairly insulting sounding towards the show so I think it’s important to make it clear to you that I genuinely enjoyed Young Sheldon. I thought it was both very well written and very well acted.
Sure did I love that it’s final seasons seemed to have no idea what to do with the main, and most interesting, character and basically let him fade into the background? Was I deeply moved that at the same time they made the people that were supposed to love him become more, and more, insulting towards him?
No.
Nor did I particularly like them trying to introduce ‘Big Bang Theory’ like cruelty to Sheldon’s college experience. Especially when it took it further than even ‘Big Bang’ did; which was a show about grown men who sometimes did this kind of crap to each other. Hint, someone being taped to the wall is not funny. An adult Sheldon being taped to the wall would not be funny which is why even the Big Bang Theory didn’t do it. So doing it to a young, twelve-year-old, Sheldon Cooper is really not funny. You know what it actually is… child abuse.
No, I did not like that. But the early seasons were really good and since most of what I’m about to talk about here is connected to them I’m hoping this won’t become too insulting.
But brace yourself just in case.
For a brief time, say about the span of its first two seasons, Young Sheldon ran alongside The Big Bang Theory and you could tell that for a while the spin-off was really at the forefront of the creator’s minds. You know how you can tell that? By just how many crossovers and mentions it received.
Characters that had either never been seen or never existed before ‘Young Sheldon’ suddenly jumped into the foreground of plots. There was a whole episode dedicated to unpacking the relationship between Sheldon and his brother Georgie, a man who up until this point had been more unseen than Mrs. Wolowitz. Or another one all about his childhood friend which according to many of the previous lore didn’t exist.
Now, I’m not saying that the introduction of Tam and Georgie automatically means that we’ve jumped into another universe; with Tam at least they do give an explanation that Sheldon has been deliberately not talking about him. And Georgie has always existed in the show; this is just the first time we’re seeing him. No, what really makes both these episodes stick in my theory is where they stand in the continuity established after them.
The Sibling Realignment
Look, I used to absolutely hate this episode, like, almost as much as I hate Amy Farah Fowler. And while it still has an unbelievable amount of issues, hence why it’s even here, I can at least admit that the intention behind it was not wholly terrible. Namely to tell a story in which Sheldon discovers that his family had it much harder than he thought, or rather was told, and that people namely his brother are far more complicated then he originally supposed. I think if they had actually managed to pull it off that would have been an interesting story to tell.
But they didn’t.
I’d argue their biggest mistake was including Leonard in the story at all. Although I am grateful they excluded Amy as that would have made an already excruciating storyline even worse. All they really needed was Sheldon and Georgie. Heck, could you imagine the fun those two actors could have had bouncing off one another? Plus the revelation of how hard it was at home for Sheldon’s family would have meant more if it had just stayed between Sheldon and his family.
Instead we have pompous, victim mentality, Leonard here telling Sheldon he needs to apologise to his brother. Apologise for what exactly? For going away to college? For being lied to about how hard it was back home? This is also completely dismissing the fact that Sheldon too lost his father, at a very young age, and unlike Georgie — who not only had his Mother and Sister around, plus a whole other support system of his wife and her family — he didn’t really have anyone he could lean on to help him through it.
And when Georgie finally comes out with it and talks to his brother like an adult; telling him how hard it was for the family after their father’s death, how hard Georgie worked to keep that family together, it’s clear that an apology is not really what he wants either.
What he wants is a thank you.
What he wants is an acknowledgment of all he’s done.
And while he certainly gets that, at least in spirit, the fact that it’s framed as something Sheldon has to apologise for muddles the message. When I first watched it, and for a long while after, it almost felt like Sheldon was being made to apologise for not doing what Georgie did. For not stepping up and supporting his mother and sister through their grief. And before anyone tries to say that maybe it was… that maybe Sheldon should have done that and he was just being selfish going off to college… I’d like to remind you… Sheldon was fourteen when his father died.
He was fourteen when he left home to do his Masters at CalTec.
He was, in fact, the exact same age that Missy was. Missy who you will remember get’s off with being called a ‘dumb teenager’ by Georgie but in no way seems to have been expected to shoulder any emotional burdens for her family. And does not seem to be greatly resented for not doing so. And that makes sense because she was fourteen.
The same age as Sheldon.
So why is Sheldon different? Why has Sheldon got to apologise for being self-involved during a time of great grief? Is it because he’s a boy?
Or perhaps we’ve once again stepped into an alternative universe in which Sheldon is Georgie’s twin instead of Missy’s?
In that world Sheldon, to match the timeline of events, would have gone off to college at around the usual age of eighteen. Maybe a bit ahead of his peers, if we still assume it was to do his masters instead of an undergraduate degree, but hardly the child prodigy he was in most of the rest of canon. If we start from this premise then the underlying implication of the expected apology, that Sheldon should have stepped up and helped shoulder the burden of the falling apart family along side Georgie, makes somewhat more sense. It’s still a little shaky as Sheldon was still being lied to about how bad things were at home so his decision to stay away and finish his studies would have been reached with only half the facts at his disposal.
And I would argue that Sheldon’s complaint against Georgie sitting on his head and making him ‘eat his farts’ when he was trying to watch Star Trek would still be a legitimate one regardless of age differences, or lack there of, between the two boys.
Still, we’ve reached some sense of balance by accepting the premise that we are not watching something set in quite the same universe as the rest of canon.
It would also make that scene, the scene in which Leonard and Georgie share their ‘Sheldon War Stories’ with each other, ring somewhat closer to what was intended. Instead of Leonard finding common ground with a man whining about driving his ‘underage’ baby brother around, and apologising for the rude words of a child, he’s commiserating with someone who still had to do that while being in the same age bracket as Sheldon. A peer. Which is what Leonard emotionally feels he’s doing; it’s why he so quickly takes Georgie’s side in the argument despite Georgie doing little to defend himself against the Star Trek bullying story. Instead Leonard giggles and agrees that it does sound hilarious.
Have I said how much I hate Leonard lately.
Because I do.
I really do.
But back to our premise. Now, that we have accepted that this episode is displaying events entirely separate from any canon we have previously seen, or will see later, some of the complaints against Sheldon sit better too. I mean not emotionally, this is still one of my favourite characters being attacked here, but they no longer vehemently rub against the future established canon of Young Sheldon and Georgie & Mandy’s First Marriage.
For example:
Georgie’s complaint that all the family’s money had to go towards Sheldon so he could go off to college and study in Germany is now a legitimate criticism, though perhaps one that should more be laid at the feet of their parents rather than Sheldon himself, rather than a woeful misunderstanding of events. Namely, if we accept that this episode is depicting events in its own universe rather than one tethered by the facts of any other canon we no longer have to contend with the fact that Young Sheldon showed the young genius receiving full scholarships to attend first East Texas Tech and the later CalTech. And then, in regards to his studies in Germany, it was the church that paid for that.
Moving on from that the multiple universe theory would now allow for Georgie’s gripes against having to bust his ass to buy his first tire shop instead of having any support from his family, because monetarily wise it all had to go to Sheldon, not to be a flat out lie. Georgie & Mandy’s First Marriage would go on to depict a very different scenario than the one that was described in the Sibling Realignment. Mary Cooper offers her house up as collateral so Georgie can get a loan from the bank to buy his father-in-law’s tire shop. It’s not exactly putting up money to help buy the store but it’s a far cry from the ‘nothing’ that was implied in this episode.
Georgie is never depicted as deliberately lying in this episode or misremembering facts; as far as the episode, and its theme of Sheldon having his eyes opened to the former suffering of his family, is concerned Georgie is 100% correct in everything he says.
In fact, if he’s not then the episode kind of falls apart.
Tam
Hopefully this next part is much shorter than the previous one or I’ll never get this post finished, but I know myself well enough not to promise anything.
In the episode ‘The Tam Turbulence’ the guys discover that Sheldon had a childhood friend who he has never spoken about. Thus, brimming with curiosity and, at least on the part of Leonard, a strong case of entitlement over Sheldon’s private business, they set out to discover what broke the friendship apart so badly that Sheldon would rather let people think he had an entirely friendless childhood than talk about Tam.
All inquiries lead to a dead end however; including talking to Tam himself who wasn’t aware they even had a proper falling out. Believing instead that they just drifted apart when one went off to college and the other didn’t. In fact, despite being the driving force behind uncovering the mystery we never see if the guys actually discover the truth. Since Sheldon only reveals it to Amy; who displaying one of the few moments of genuine warmth and understanding her final form has ever shown, gets that truth out of him. The truth that because Sheldon was afraid to move across the country, again at only fourteen, Tam had said he’d move to California and get an apartment with him so there would be a friendly face there. However when he got a girlfriend Tam backed out of the plan and Sheldon was left all alone.
It’s to the credit of the episode that when we, the audience, finally learn the truth there’s no narrative trick, or cruel piece of dialogue, that implies Sheldon is being selfish or fundamentally wrong to feel hurt at what Tam did. Even if it was a choice that was best for Tam himself, and possibly even Sheldon in the long run, it still caused Sheldon many years of pain and loneliness. And while Amy does encourage him to forgive Tam and move on from his grudge even she admits that what Sheldon went through was hard.
The problem with this episode, and why it’s being mentioned here at all, is not actually the episode itself.
The problem we have with the Tam episode is arguably the same problem we have with have with the Georgie episode. No, it’s not that Leonard is there… although he does make a fairly unpleasant, and distinctly not fun to watch, spiteful speech to Sheldon about how he shouldn’t have been surprised that Tam did nothing wrong and that Sheldon should be careful… he doesn’t want to lose another best friend since no one’s lining up to be the next one. Did I mention I kind of hate Leonard. Because I do, I really do, but moving on from that nonsense he’s not the problem.
The problem here is that once again this does not really match with what later canon has shown us. Early canon is accounted for at least with the explanation that Sheldon has consciously been not speaking about his childhood friend. However we stumble into a problem when Young Sheldon comes into play. For we never see this very important, and very scarring, agreement take place on screen.
In fact, when Sheldon goes off to college the first time he lives at home as the college is in Texas; and later when he actually goes off to California the character of Tam has been mostly discarded in favour of Sheldon’s professors and the occasional college classmate. We do get a small scene with the two of them sitting having lunch together near the end of the show but even Tam looks confused at why they’re doing this when they haven’t really hung out in years.
So yeah, that was weird.
The Young Sheldon Problem
As I said at the start for one brief moment in time – two seasons worth of episodes for both shows – Young Sheldon ran along side its parent show. And for that brief amount of time it was clear that the prequel was very much on the Big Bang Theory’s writers minds. To the point that they even had the star of it, Ian Armitage, make a guest appearance by old video recording.
So what does this tell us about the state of the Multiverse Theory during these two seasons? Well…
We might presume then that season Eleven and season Twelve tell a story of a world that very much exists in tandem with the events of Young Sheldon. Not the previous seasons of its own show but solely with the prequel to it. Up to the point when they don’t even mention how similar Sheldon’s father — another guest on the video recording — looks to Leonard’s old bully, Jimmy Spekerman.
The two were played by the same actor, Lance Barber.
However, while ‘The Big Bang Theory’ kept true, baring some odd writing choices with Sheldon’s brother, to Young Sheldon’s canon once the parent show was finished there was nothing keeping the prequel from doing the same.
And considering its handling of the rest of Sheldon’s established history… the fact that they completely threw whatever canon had been established in these two episodes out the window to tell their own story is kind of on brand at this point.
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